Just recapping this past week, so I can have a sense of, I don't know, recognizing what's been happening. Recording it for posterity.
Things I/we have accomplished:
- Ellis figured out how to draw better.
- Got two rooms to a better state of organization.
- Washed dishes consistently.
- Made several meals, actually cooking.
- Did grocery shopping.
- Figured out a way to have "system meetings," and have done it several times in a row.
Things I/we have been discovering/acknowledging:
- There are more parts, and we're working on being ok with that.
- It really is important for parts to have a name, and not just an identity. A couple of parts have chosen names who hadn't before.
- The adults and the teens have been trying to communicate better.
- I/we need to do a lot of work on sorting out the difference between past and present
Things that have been going on inside:
- Several of the little kids have been getting a lot of abuse memories.
- The teens have been facing their own abuse stuff.
- The adults and teens have been working on accepting that even stuff that seemed normal was actually pretty hard.
- The adults and little kids have been working on accepting stuff about a certain person.
How I/we have been feeling:
- Tired
- Sad
- Angry
- Scared
- Accomplished
- Accepted
- Wiped out
2 comments:
Sounds like you're making good progress. For me, just getting the dishes done makes it a good day lately.
Keep up the good work.
Thanks. I'm working on acknowledging what I did do, and not getting upset with myself for what didn't get done.
My rule is two "jobs" a day... sometimes, those "jobs" are as simple as "make sure there is cat food and water in their bowls."
Thanks very much for the comment!
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